George Washington’s father, Augustine, was concerned about and involved in George’s education, especially his use of the English language and penmanship. Augustine even recruited a mentor, or a tutor to see that George not only learned good penmanship, but also grasped and even became proficient in the use of the King’s English.

Out of that came the “110 Rules of Civility and Decent Behaviour in Company and Conversation.” One of these rules was: “Speak not in an unknown Tongue in Company but in your own Language and that as those of Quality do and not as ye Vulgar; sublime matters treat seriously.” (number 72).

My mother, bless her heart, was an English major. So she was careful to correct her children when they used inappropriate or incorrect language. I love her for it. The proper use of language was important in the practice of law, and in becoming an author.

It still hurts my ears when I hear language used improperly. Today a newscaster said something that has become too much of a normal improper use of language. It went something like this: “He visited Joan and I.” If that doesn’t sting your ears, perhaps you didn’t pay enough attention in English classes!

Many learned people think that usage is high sounding and correct. No it isn’t. It actually shows lack of knowledge! That rule is easy enough to learn. If in doubt in such a sentence construction, just leave the second personal reference off. That would make the above sentence read: “He visited . . .I”. Can’t you tell that’s wrong? Add the word back in and the correct usage become apparent. “He visited Joan and me.” Or “He visited me.” You see?

Watch yourself. Don’t sting someone else’s ears! You just sound unlearned, not highfalutin’.