You will remember that Thomas Jefferson was the U.S. President from 1801 to 1809, and he selected James Madison, a fellow Virginian, as his Secretary of State.

But do you recall that Martha Jefferson had died before Tom became President? So Jefferson was a widower in the White House. He asked if James would allow Dolley to occasionally serve as the official hostess for State Dinners and other events at the discretion of the President. James thought that would be a benefit to both of them, and gave his approval.

So Dolley helped prepare menus, meals, invitations, and other duties of the Hostess, when Tom requested. Nearly every day Jefferson had 10-12 guests to lunch, where Dolley served as Hostess. (Maybe that’s where “Hostess Cupcakes” come from!) Together they introduced some interesting new “American” dishes!

In 1809 James Madison was elected to become President. As first lady, Dolley continued in he role as Hostess in the White House. She was always fashionable, stylish, entertaining, and hospitable. A wonderful hostess and First Lady.

James wasn’t as comfortable around guests as Dolley always was. James labored incessantly, sleeping very little, and always worrying about his duties. He would often look to find Dolley in the sitting rooms at the President’s Mansion, where he was sure of “a bright story and a good laugh. He knew she always looked like a queen, and displayed such manners as would “disarm envy itself, and conciliate even enemies.”

They complimented each other immensely. More on that tomorrow!